Its Christmas day today. Mom is at work and Nicole is in Indonesia helping get our friend Grace married. I am, of course, very happy that they can all be together, but wish I could be there too for Carmen's classic reading of the Best Christmas Pageant Ever. Not to mention, Grace's wedding.
In order have both Mom and Nicole here, Christmas happened early for our family. What that means now though is that Christmas day is a time to reflect, to read and just hang out.
On our family's Christmas Mom asked us to say what we appreciated about Jesus since this is when we celebrate him and all. Thinking over all the people I've met on this grand adventure I realized that I appreciate having Jesus as a reason.
I think its interesting to look at my ride with Dave in Alabama compared to my ride with Marisa to Arizona. Dave was an enthusiastic evangelical who really got into telling me all about his spiritual journey and how his spirituality and religious beliefs have come to bear on the political and economic realm. While I found his many of his ideas, especially the political ones, to be a bit off-putting (to put it kindly), I could not deny that this man felt secure in his faith, and found great joy and satisfaction in being able to help me along on my travels. Further more, and more importantly, he seemed to find purpose and fulfillment in his daily work. By actively trying to model Christ's example as he saw it Dave seemed able to turn what I saw as a mundane and boring job into something at least a bit more life giving than it otherwise might have been.
In contrast Marisa seemed to have, in my humble opinion, a potentially invigorating job in which she has the opportunity to make a deep and profound impact on many kids. Her role is to co-lead canoe trips for kids with behavioral issues. These kids have grown up in rough inner-city homes. According to Marisa many of them really have trouble getting along with the rest of the group and the leaders. Over the course of these trips, which are often as long as a month, it seems like there would be many great opportunities to help these kids grow personally and socially and in the end leave with new outlooks on life. My impression, however (and I should note that it is just an impression), was that Marisa was not nearly as excited or motivated by her work with kids who needed help, as Dave was by his work with heating and cooling systems.
Through all of that I can't help but wonder why. Marisa, although ethnically Jewish, seemed to be quite removed from any personal religion or faith and the organization she works for was similarly secular. And so as she spoke of her work it was clear that she does see the importance of helping these kids, although I couldn't help but think that maybe if she, like Dave, was living more some higher power she might be a bit more up beat about it.
And so, as I think about why I do what I do, I want to use this season as a reminder that Jesus is the reason for so much more than just this season.
Also it snowed Christmas Eve and made everything look beautiful. so that was nice :-)
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Tuesday, December 25, 2012
Monday, December 17, 2012
Homeward Bound
What a long strange trip its been. I've been on the road for 43 days, I've covered at least 6,323 miles, stayed in 11 different cities, took at least 19 different rides, met up with a great number of friends and had one hell of a good time.
But now its time for a bit of a change. Right now I'm on a plane headed for home. The Lancaster version. The home where parents and family are. The home that really is.
Of course the past many weeks of staying on people's couches, guest rooms and behind parking lot hedgerows has been great too! In the beginning adventure was top priority. But over time that's changed.
Hitching rides and meeting kind strangers was thrilling, trying at times.
Getting ahold of my own wheels led to a whole new dimension and allowed me to begin meeting kind friends to whom I didn't have to reintroduce myself to every time I met one of them.
Prearranging rides then through craigslist took me to yet another different travel experience. Meeting new people without having to deal with the uncertainty and anxiety of waiting on the side of the road combined with the convenience of knowing that I'll be getting the whole way to my destination made ridesharing a great way to get from place to place.
Aaand.... Now I'm on a plane. Knowing that not very long ago my sister and roommates dropped me off at a truck stop with well wishes and a cardboard sign saying 'South' is quite something. Although I rarely like to philosophize or psychoanalyze changes in one's setting or sleeping places I will say that experiencing a stranger's hospitality, fending for myself and sleeping in a ditch, or making myself at home in a friend's house all feel every different and has certainly gone a long way in broadening my comfort zones in new ways.
And now it's time to do that again. Traveling and transience, despite seeming to bring new experiences daily, also brings with it it's own mindset; sleeping on a couch and having two options of what to wear is a constant reminder that I'm going somewhere new soon and that the people I meet are more often than not simply fleeting encounters.
This past week, however, has been notably different. I am planning on going back to Tucson around the end of January at very least to pick up my belongings that I can't fly with (bike, knife, cooking stove etc) but hopefully I'll be returning for the long haul (in my world that's maybe a year or so). It'll be a new way of looking at the world and those around me; maybe I'll need to start learning who people actually are and not just the 5 hours worth of introduction that I've been so used to lately.
Although I also must add that I'm not there yet. Things still need to work out, and come together. On Wednesday and Thursday I had a great time with CHRPA building a wheel chair ramp and going to their Christmas party. On that front things are worked out. I have meaningful work with good people to keep me occupied. On the housing front things are less certain but possibly more exciting. I still need to figure out, with MVS and those living at the house, how living arrangements may work. Spending the week on the couch at the MVS house might not have made for the best nights sleep but spending a week with Emma, Kat, Carrie, Darlene and Jon was simply a blast. To be fair it might have had something to do with all the marvelous parties, 5k fun runs and the festive holiday spirit but I can't ignore how great it was to get to know all of them and spend the week with them!
Thursday, December 13, 2012
Mission Accomplished!
Well, I've made it! I'm finally in Tucson AZ, its been a long strange trip, much longer albeit a bit less strange than I was expecting. From San Francisco I again took a Craigslist rideshare ride. Her name was Marisa and was great. For the first six hours though we had the pleasure of also riding with one John Somebody. We never got his last name but he's a spiritual man who talked a lot about the collective consciousness and how its impacting the course of humanity.
For now though I'm just going to share some pictures:
I miss my tall bike. I hope Jason Spicher and the Cycling club lackeys at EMU have made my tall pile of bolts better by now! |
Hannah and her biking friend (and just normal friend) Sarah. |
Sunday afternoon we biked across the bridge and up into the Marin Highlands. |
It was a super clear day. The boats in the background and Alcatraz is the focus of this shot. Not the pickup. |
What an awesome color! |
Hey look, you can see the city! |
Emma Fenton-Miller and Sarah. |
It was a great ride up the hill. Long but not too steep. |
We are just such great buddies! |
But mostly I like apples. |
Rocktown Bikes by the Pacific ocean! |
And then I came to Tucson!
Emma is seen here working on the turtle cistern. Its a pretty cool looking project. |
And this is the view from the front of the MVS house. Its a stinking cool house. |
Sunday, December 9, 2012
Happenings, both present and future!
Things here have been great. Although I didn't get around to seeing all the sites and places that I thought I might, I did get to do some of the classic things that one must do. Some of said things are documented photographically. Have a look see:
The Capitol building. Very pretty. |
UN park. Pretty fountains. |
Coit Tower. The Tower. |
Coit Tower. The View from it. |
San Fran Chinatown. It was great to be tall again! Also, there was lots of cheap plastic goods. Just like the Russian Market. And, as you can see there were even great signs! |
Then on Tuesday I spent some time getting Hannah's bike road ready and took it out for a spin. What a great ride! Riding up into Joaquin Miller park took me up into the fog so I missed out on the grand views but instead got to ride around with my head in the clouds.
Grand old trees ominously peeking through. |
Before getting to the edge of the forest I almost thought there was a forest fire. |
View of DeYoung Museum |
View from DeYoung Museum |
View from DeYoung Museum again. |
A pretty picture. |
I miss my tall bike! |
Also, we just went on an awesome group ride today, over the Golden Gate Bridge. But you will have to look forward to pictures of it on the next post. Right now I need to get this edition to the presses and pack up! and then we might be getting some ice cream in a bit here.
But, the important thing I want to share with you all, my dear friends, is my holiday plans.
In short, I'm going back East for Christmas!!! yaaay! Here's the run down:
I'm going to Tucson tomorrow, I'll hang out there for a week, update my blog and visit CHRPA.
Then its to Lancaster on the 17th, hanging out, doing Christmas, cousin Steph's wedding!, then maybe biking to H'burg with Austin Show. in time for some rockin New Years celebrations, and general good times until mid to late January when I'll fly back to Phoenix with my 'rents, travel around then for a bit and then go back to Tucson and maybe be there for a while (couple of months at least?)
pweeph! I'm outa breath. But there it is! Look for a better post soon.
Wednesday, December 5, 2012
The OE to SF and everything in between
Ben working on our giant pot of Chili. Making chili on a heating stove in an oversized pot was way fun. |
Karl loves his camera |
Sadly, Mark is a bit blurry. But its ok because he features in a video in just a bit. |
The last couple of days of my stay it rained quite a bit.
Which led to:
I grew some extra freckles. |
Karl did too I just didn't take a very good picture. |
Phil sliding down the mountain with a truck full of wood. |
And sliding on picnic tables! (Featuring Mark)
Canoeing was also wonderful. It was so beautiful to be able to just sit and silently drift over the water; especially on the nights when the moon was out and bright enough to read by!
Sunsets were also nice. |
Then finally after goofing off, climbing things like bark burners and roofs, and generally just having a good time, it was time for the town trip. Due to the weather I decided to not risk biking down the mountain and just got a ride with the people in the vans. Having previously ran into Heather and her daughter Simone at Shop N' Kart I had arranged to spend the night at my old professor and neighbor's house that Saturday night. I had lined up a ride to go to San Fran Sunday afternoon.
And so now we are nearly caught up! I made it to Hannah's house (actually in Oakland, in case anyone is reading this) Sunday night after a long ride with a driver who was pretty cool, quiet and would've been great, and two other riders. A drunk young woman who wouldn't shut up and kept drinking, and another dude who would just goofily nod along and laugh stupidly with the other one. I forgot their names pretty quickly and didn't bother asking to be reminded. Sorry I didn't get a picture with them.
Anyway, Its getting late and I need to go to bed. I'm hoping tomorrow is going to be the biking day... but its raining pretty hard now so that might not go over so well. I think I'll catch you up, dear reader, on my life in the Bay Area in the next post!
See you then.
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